"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'm meeting someone from HotOrNot

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LOL. Don't know anything about her except that she lives 5 minutes away from me. That's funny. Comments?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Vincent

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Originally posted by thatguy
LOL. Don't know anything about her except that she lives 5 minutes away from me. That's funny. Comments?
you scare me
 

Eternal

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Originally posted by thatguy
LOL. Don't know anything about her except that she lives 5 minutes away from me. That's funny. Comments?
*Stands up to speak. Thinks better of it. Shakes head*
 

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Re: Re: I'm meeting someone from HotOrNot

Originally posted by rgeere
Pack some mace or pepper spray.....
bwaaahahaha. nah she's real.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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She's real? What are you going to mace the imaginary girl you are talking to? No **** shes real. I think he meant bring some mace in case she has a pen!s
 

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Originally posted by gm8384
I think he meant bring some mace in case she has a pen!s
maybe he's into that sort of thing
 

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Come on, we all want to see, now give us the link.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Seriously dude, PM the link to me, I gotta see.
 

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Here's a bit of advice frome someone who has extensive online experience, especially with hot or not. I often meet up with 1-2 new girls from Hot or Not each week.

GET LOADS OF NEW PICS OF HER IN VARIOUS SITUATIONS. FACE AND BODY SHOTS!!! That is the PRIMARY rule. Break it at your own risk. You WILL be sorry if you don't follow it.

But anyway...you're already going to meet her and you know nothing about each other other than the TINY bit you see on Hot or Not.

This girl is either A) A slut. Play it right and you WILL fvck her the first time out...B) She has some type of problem in her life...recent breakup, low self esteem, psche problems, etc. Again, play it right and you WILL fvck her the first night.

Of course, that's assuming you'll even want to once you meet up. But dude, either way, this sh1t is in the bag. You're fvcking, and that's that. Have fun and let us know how it goes!


-Soma
 

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man, dont worry about it. Give it a shot...the internet is where people meet now just like clubs and bookstores. She could be odd, she could just be bored. Its always a different story. Go get er
 

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Originally posted by dementia
ive met a couple girls from the net... first 2 i talked to for about a month or more and, met up and had not much to talk about and they where quite disasterous. (from my AFC life).

Next 2 i fvcked first date, 1 im about to fvck on the 3rd. Thing i found is u an get alot of chicks interested in u just from talkin online, but its important u meet them before u start running out of **** to talk about online (which is usually around 3 hrs) save it for the date. Usually they do wanna meet otherwise why talk?? Just ask and if they say no NEXT.


"Its **** in the bag" hahah thats funny cos its true.

;)
dementia is pretty much on the money here, listen to him, he knows what he's talking about. It's one of those things where if you talk too much before you meet, then you not only run out of things to talk about without repeating conversations, but you also run the risk of the gal getting this image of you in her mind that you have to live up to, otherwise the wind will be taken out of her sails. I think there's obviously a good way to get around this, but it will involve making sure that you are no different in person than you are on the net and you have new stuff to talk about.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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