kingxxxman
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I try to be ****y and funny but i don't think im getting either of those points across. Some girls just tell me that i'm mean but i can't tell if they're serious or what. Ideas?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I'm Mean?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
kingxxxman
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like if they say hi to me in the hallway, i'll pretend to ignore them then after i'll just laugh. I'll also like throw someone's item on the ground or something or just generally ignore people or something..?
That's not ****y or funny. That's just rude and annoying, especially if you laugh at someone for throwing their **** on the ground. ****y and funny is being playful with everyone around you. Basically being "mean" but with a friendly vibe. What you're doing doesn't have that vibe.
kingxxxman
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well the problem is that im not a very funny guy at all... how do i get to be fun? im more like really wound up....
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
kingxxxman
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interesting.... so even though if i am funny and stuff, should i be like sorta meanish or should i be pretty nice to the girls that im interested in?
kingxxxman
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def not a troll bro. im lookin to up my game next year. revamp myself for the next year.
@ DJ hero, basically assert yourself but be nice with your actions? haha.... thats going to need work. and theres a difference between being a alpha and c&f? blah this stuff is hard lol
@ DJ hero, basically assert yourself but be nice with your actions? haha.... thats going to need work. and theres a difference between being a alpha and c&f? blah this stuff is hard lol
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What impresses one girl might make another roll her eyes. Your best bet is to be yourself.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.