kingxxxman
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I try to be ****y and funny but i don't think im getting either of those points across. Some girls just tell me that i'm mean but i can't tell if they're serious or what. Ideas?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I'm Mean?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
kingxxxman
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like if they say hi to me in the hallway, i'll pretend to ignore them then after i'll just laugh. I'll also like throw someone's item on the ground or something or just generally ignore people or something..?
That's not ****y or funny. That's just rude and annoying, especially if you laugh at someone for throwing their **** on the ground. ****y and funny is being playful with everyone around you. Basically being "mean" but with a friendly vibe. What you're doing doesn't have that vibe.
kingxxxman
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well the problem is that im not a very funny guy at all... how do i get to be fun? im more like really wound up....
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
kingxxxman
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interesting.... so even though if i am funny and stuff, should i be like sorta meanish or should i be pretty nice to the girls that im interested in?
kingxxxman
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def not a troll bro. im lookin to up my game next year. revamp myself for the next year.
@ DJ hero, basically assert yourself but be nice with your actions? haha.... thats going to need work. and theres a difference between being a alpha and c&f? blah this stuff is hard lol
@ DJ hero, basically assert yourself but be nice with your actions? haha.... thats going to need work. and theres a difference between being a alpha and c&f? blah this stuff is hard lol
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What impresses one girl might make another roll her eyes. Your best bet is to be yourself.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.