kingxxxman
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I try to be ****y and funny but i don't think im getting either of those points across. Some girls just tell me that i'm mean but i can't tell if they're serious or what. Ideas?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I'm Mean?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
kingxxxman
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like if they say hi to me in the hallway, i'll pretend to ignore them then after i'll just laugh. I'll also like throw someone's item on the ground or something or just generally ignore people or something..?
That's not ****y or funny. That's just rude and annoying, especially if you laugh at someone for throwing their **** on the ground. ****y and funny is being playful with everyone around you. Basically being "mean" but with a friendly vibe. What you're doing doesn't have that vibe.
kingxxxman
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well the problem is that im not a very funny guy at all... how do i get to be fun? im more like really wound up....
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
kingxxxman
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interesting.... so even though if i am funny and stuff, should i be like sorta meanish or should i be pretty nice to the girls that im interested in?
kingxxxman
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def not a troll bro. im lookin to up my game next year. revamp myself for the next year.
@ DJ hero, basically assert yourself but be nice with your actions? haha.... thats going to need work. and theres a difference between being a alpha and c&f? blah this stuff is hard lol
@ DJ hero, basically assert yourself but be nice with your actions? haha.... thats going to need work. and theres a difference between being a alpha and c&f? blah this stuff is hard lol
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What impresses one girl might make another roll her eyes. Your best bet is to be yourself.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.