"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"I'm intimidated by you"

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Not sure what to make of this comment from women...its the 3rd time in the last month and a half I've heard it.

The one told me she was both intimidated and excited at the same time...

I'm not tall at 5'9" but I am very well built, cross between a linebacker and a bodybuilder...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Simple response: "Good." With a wink.

You want them to be intimidated by you; it won't stop her if she's really attracted to you. Worst case scenario, it'll make her gina tingle more. Women want to date up.

Women don't want the pedestal, so never get off of it.
 
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Imagine for a second that they said the opposite: "I'm not intimidated by you", or conveyed that as their frame, and actually meant it. You don't want that.

They're fessing up to you oozing power. You can always tone it down just a tiny bit by dropping in a well timed moment of vulnerability (ex. how much you care/cared about one of your grandparents) and you will own them.
 
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sounds like you are good to go, proceed as you are.
 
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"So what are you going to do about it? ;)"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I've gotten this before. I think it made her 'gina tingle to be honest.
 
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Make her more intimidated by manhandling her in bed brah. Better fvck her like a pornstar and she'll stick to you like glue.
 
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Not all chicks like the alpha-type believe it or not. They'd rather go for the beta chumpity chump chumpster that's easy to manipulate and wrap around her finger. I've been nexted because of the wiley ways we live by. Too much work for them to deal with I guess. These male-female dynamics are FUBARed nowadays.
 
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"chumpity chump chumpster". Haha. If she nexted me because I'm not a doormat or pushover then good. Find some dweeb that'll put up with your sh*t.
 
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