"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"I'm intimidated by you"

BackInTheGame78

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Not sure what to make of this comment from women...its the 3rd time in the last month and a half I've heard it.

The one told me she was both intimidated and excited at the same time...

I'm not tall at 5'9" but I am very well built, cross between a linebacker and a bodybuilder...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Simple response: "Good." With a wink.

You want them to be intimidated by you; it won't stop her if she's really attracted to you. Worst case scenario, it'll make her gina tingle more. Women want to date up.

Women don't want the pedestal, so never get off of it.
 

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Imagine for a second that they said the opposite: "I'm not intimidated by you", or conveyed that as their frame, and actually meant it. You don't want that.

They're fessing up to you oozing power. You can always tone it down just a tiny bit by dropping in a well timed moment of vulnerability (ex. how much you care/cared about one of your grandparents) and you will own them.
 

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sounds like you are good to go, proceed as you are.
 

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"So what are you going to do about it? ;)"
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I've gotten this before. I think it made her 'gina tingle to be honest.
 
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Make her more intimidated by manhandling her in bed brah. Better fvck her like a pornstar and she'll stick to you like glue.
 

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Not all chicks like the alpha-type believe it or not. They'd rather go for the beta chumpity chump chumpster that's easy to manipulate and wrap around her finger. I've been nexted because of the wiley ways we live by. Too much work for them to deal with I guess. These male-female dynamics are FUBARed nowadays.
 

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"chumpity chump chumpster". Haha. If she nexted me because I'm not a doormat or pushover then good. Find some dweeb that'll put up with your sh*t.
 
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