"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"I'm intimidated by you"

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Not sure what to make of this comment from women...its the 3rd time in the last month and a half I've heard it.

The one told me she was both intimidated and excited at the same time...

I'm not tall at 5'9" but I am very well built, cross between a linebacker and a bodybuilder...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Simple response: "Good." With a wink.

You want them to be intimidated by you; it won't stop her if she's really attracted to you. Worst case scenario, it'll make her gina tingle more. Women want to date up.

Women don't want the pedestal, so never get off of it.
 
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Imagine for a second that they said the opposite: "I'm not intimidated by you", or conveyed that as their frame, and actually meant it. You don't want that.

They're fessing up to you oozing power. You can always tone it down just a tiny bit by dropping in a well timed moment of vulnerability (ex. how much you care/cared about one of your grandparents) and you will own them.
 
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sounds like you are good to go, proceed as you are.
 
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"So what are you going to do about it? ;)"
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I've gotten this before. I think it made her 'gina tingle to be honest.
 
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Make her more intimidated by manhandling her in bed brah. Better fvck her like a pornstar and she'll stick to you like glue.
 
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Not all chicks like the alpha-type believe it or not. They'd rather go for the beta chumpity chump chumpster that's easy to manipulate and wrap around her finger. I've been nexted because of the wiley ways we live by. Too much work for them to deal with I guess. These male-female dynamics are FUBARed nowadays.
 
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"chumpity chump chumpster". Haha. If she nexted me because I'm not a doormat or pushover then good. Find some dweeb that'll put up with your sh*t.
 
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