JackFrost01
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Alright, so here's the story. Basically I've worked at the same department store for a little over a year now(June2003). I was a huge AFC when I started. Total shy nice guy letting people walk all over me and then I started to change myself. In the fall I started working out and becoming more sociable. I work with alot of girls and I talk to all of them now and I've gotten alot better dealing with girls. Unfortunetly, I only found this site around February.
Anyways, so get this. I work with an HB9(we're both 20) and to tell you the truth, I never really payed much attention to her. See, I thought that I could never get a girl like this, so I decided that I wouldn't even really talk to her. I basically ignored her(having the occational convo) until about April or May 2004. This is kind of a good thing you might think, cause I started with the C+F, Neg-hits, etc..(which all work great), but sadly, it's too late. I'm so totally in the friends zone it's not funny.
I had her busting a gut the last couple times, but when I give good eye contact, she breaks it off. Like she always has this look, no matter how hard I make her laugh, that I'm just not good enough for her(I get that vibe, she's really materialistic). She's called me cute a couple of times, which at first I thought was amazing(never being called cute by a hot girl before) but of course I now just realise that it's B.S. She probably just wants to be some AFC boy-toy, I won't let her control me though and she realises/respects me more when I tell her off(with humor).
So my question is that I'm going to be seeing this girl at work a few times a week till the end of the summer, what should I do? Should I just try out DJ techniques on her(I'm still looking for other women)? Should I try upping the kino? Become really good friends and use her as social proof?
I do really like her and I still get a bit flustered in her presence(she's got a bangin body, face, great personality) so I need some more practice. What to do, what to do?
Jack
Anyways, so get this. I work with an HB9(we're both 20) and to tell you the truth, I never really payed much attention to her. See, I thought that I could never get a girl like this, so I decided that I wouldn't even really talk to her. I basically ignored her(having the occational convo) until about April or May 2004. This is kind of a good thing you might think, cause I started with the C+F, Neg-hits, etc..(which all work great), but sadly, it's too late. I'm so totally in the friends zone it's not funny.
I had her busting a gut the last couple times, but when I give good eye contact, she breaks it off. Like she always has this look, no matter how hard I make her laugh, that I'm just not good enough for her(I get that vibe, she's really materialistic). She's called me cute a couple of times, which at first I thought was amazing(never being called cute by a hot girl before) but of course I now just realise that it's B.S. She probably just wants to be some AFC boy-toy, I won't let her control me though and she realises/respects me more when I tell her off(with humor).
So my question is that I'm going to be seeing this girl at work a few times a week till the end of the summer, what should I do? Should I just try out DJ techniques on her(I'm still looking for other women)? Should I try upping the kino? Become really good friends and use her as social proof?
I do really like her and I still get a bit flustered in her presence(she's got a bangin body, face, great personality) so I need some more practice. What to do, what to do?
Jack