I'm going through a dry zone and getting redicolously horni. I've always had jobs or classes where does was girls around and always had 2-3 plates at the same time but now I work at a factory and take classes where there's only men. I'm 20 and decent looking athletic it shouldn't be this hard lol. Since I'm not meeting women through my usual ways I'm forced to have to cold approach and it's something I done in the past but completely suck at. I get visibly nervous. I'm gotten number before but they never lead to anywhere. I know there was a couple I could've laid but I decided not to persist. How can I get good at cold approaching and boosting my confidence. Also how to meet and be around more females?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I'm having a hard time finding plates
- Thread starter GeoMan
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
Go to the mall and/or Walmart. Theres always girls in both.
SmooveMooves
Master Don Juan
Make more friends and game through your social circle. The hottest girls I've met were through friends or when I was with a friend. A strong social circle is the key to successful dating life as well as a to having a healthy life.
NSX-R
Master Don Juan
I know how you feel bro. I'm in the same situation as you right now (i chose it) but currently i'm not so eager to have a chick by my side( last summer banged a lot of them and i got rid off a bit that big thirst for meat of mine) . Go out , check out your surroundings and when you see a hot opportunity getting close then grab it. Otherwise get some of your more experienced with those things friends go into a club and be social,approach HBs and allow yourself to experience new things.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Wal-Mart sells plates, too! Bonus!
Social circle, aka "friends" (a misunderstood word) comes from shared interests. You have to identify your own interests, pursue them, and you will meet other people with the same interest.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.