I'm going through a dry zone and getting redicolously horni. I've always had jobs or classes where does was girls around and always had 2-3 plates at the same time but now I work at a factory and take classes where there's only men. I'm 20 and decent looking athletic it shouldn't be this hard lol. Since I'm not meeting women through my usual ways I'm forced to have to cold approach and it's something I done in the past but completely suck at. I get visibly nervous. I'm gotten number before but they never lead to anywhere. I know there was a couple I could've laid but I decided not to persist. How can I get good at cold approaching and boosting my confidence. Also how to meet and be around more females?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I'm having a hard time finding plates
- Thread starter GeoMan
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
Go to the mall and/or Walmart. Theres always girls in both.
SmooveMooves
Master Don Juan
Make more friends and game through your social circle. The hottest girls I've met were through friends or when I was with a friend. A strong social circle is the key to successful dating life as well as a to having a healthy life.
NSX-R
Master Don Juan
I know how you feel bro. I'm in the same situation as you right now (i chose it) but currently i'm not so eager to have a chick by my side( last summer banged a lot of them and i got rid off a bit that big thirst for meat of mine) . Go out , check out your surroundings and when you see a hot opportunity getting close then grab it. Otherwise get some of your more experienced with those things friends go into a club and be social,approach HBs and allow yourself to experience new things.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Wal-Mart sells plates, too! Bonus!
Social circle, aka "friends" (a misunderstood word) comes from shared interests. You have to identify your own interests, pursue them, and you will meet other people with the same interest.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.