I'm going through a dry zone and getting redicolously horni. I've always had jobs or classes where does was girls around and always had 2-3 plates at the same time but now I work at a factory and take classes where there's only men. I'm 20 and decent looking athletic it shouldn't be this hard lol. Since I'm not meeting women through my usual ways I'm forced to have to cold approach and it's something I done in the past but completely suck at. I get visibly nervous. I'm gotten number before but they never lead to anywhere. I know there was a couple I could've laid but I decided not to persist. How can I get good at cold approaching and boosting my confidence. Also how to meet and be around more females?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
I'm having a hard time finding plates
- Thread starter GeoMan
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
Go to the mall and/or Walmart. Theres always girls in both.
SmooveMooves
Master Don Juan
Make more friends and game through your social circle. The hottest girls I've met were through friends or when I was with a friend. A strong social circle is the key to successful dating life as well as a to having a healthy life.
NSX-R
Master Don Juan
I know how you feel bro. I'm in the same situation as you right now (i chose it) but currently i'm not so eager to have a chick by my side( last summer banged a lot of them and i got rid off a bit that big thirst for meat of mine) . Go out , check out your surroundings and when you see a hot opportunity getting close then grab it. Otherwise get some of your more experienced with those things friends go into a club and be social,approach HBs and allow yourself to experience new things.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Wal-Mart sells plates, too! Bonus!
Social circle, aka "friends" (a misunderstood word) comes from shared interests. You have to identify your own interests, pursue them, and you will meet other people with the same interest.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.