"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm going to change

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Today while at the gym I came upon a realization that never really hit me before. I'm unsatisfied with my life.

Here's how I plan on changing:

Cut negative people out of my life
Quit smoking pot
Put more focus on my music, bands, and bass playing
Meet more women
Become more spiritual
Be nicer to my family
Cut back on my drinking
Drink more water

As of now it feels like I'm just drifting day to day, getting high, not caring, just in general being some ******* I no longer want to be. Wish me luck folks.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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itishe said:
Here's how I plan on changing:


Meet more women
Become more spiritual
You can always join a cult, it will solve these two problems and maybe more.
 

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Good luck to you man! You can do it.


Is it just me, or do girls really not like people who smoke (tobacco products)

I'm not talking about kissing an ashtray, I'm talking about the image.

Anyone else think that?
 

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Glad you desire progress.

Becoming more spiritual, tho, sounds like sort of a vague goal. What did you mean by it?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Obsidian said:
Becoming more spiritual, tho, sounds like sort of a vague goal. What did you mean by it?

Was wondering the same thing myself.
 

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I'm not totally sure, when I feel more enlightened I'll tell you what I did. :)


I know a change like this is in store, because it's the truth when people say you really don't need game or lines to pick up chicks, you just gotta be happy with who you are and like your life and they'll come.
 

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itishe said:
I'm not totally sure, when I feel more enlightened I'll tell you what I did. :)


I know a change like this is in store, because it's the truth when people say you really don't need game or lines to pick up chicks, you just gotta be happy with who you are and like your life and they'll come.
s***, you are already more enlightened than 98% of the folks on here. maybe they should be asking you for advice.

if i knew how or what giving reps was i would go ahead and send some your way. however, i am clueless on the matter.
 

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i'd say it's 50/50 on the smoking tobacco products. there's girls who smoke and are extremely attractive and there's also girls who don't smoke that fall into the same catagory. if you smoke, it's a great bonus. nothing better than a good bang and then light one up together.

if you don't smoke then girls are not going to look attractive and smell pretty gross. us smokers can't smell our own stink. when i used to go to the bar i used to look for the ones on the dance floor that smoked because i always hated dating non-smokers because overtime i noticed the girls wouldn't mind me smoking through the infatuation period but complain after the puppydog love phase was over. i would love to quit someday again because you just can't have a smoke in peace anymore.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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