"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'm going to change

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Today while at the gym I came upon a realization that never really hit me before. I'm unsatisfied with my life.

Here's how I plan on changing:

Cut negative people out of my life
Quit smoking pot
Put more focus on my music, bands, and bass playing
Meet more women
Become more spiritual
Be nicer to my family
Cut back on my drinking
Drink more water

As of now it feels like I'm just drifting day to day, getting high, not caring, just in general being some ******* I no longer want to be. Wish me luck folks.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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itishe said:
Here's how I plan on changing:


Meet more women
Become more spiritual
You can always join a cult, it will solve these two problems and maybe more.
 

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Good luck to you man! You can do it.


Is it just me, or do girls really not like people who smoke (tobacco products)

I'm not talking about kissing an ashtray, I'm talking about the image.

Anyone else think that?
 

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Glad you desire progress.

Becoming more spiritual, tho, sounds like sort of a vague goal. What did you mean by it?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Obsidian said:
Becoming more spiritual, tho, sounds like sort of a vague goal. What did you mean by it?

Was wondering the same thing myself.
 

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I'm not totally sure, when I feel more enlightened I'll tell you what I did. :)


I know a change like this is in store, because it's the truth when people say you really don't need game or lines to pick up chicks, you just gotta be happy with who you are and like your life and they'll come.
 

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itishe said:
I'm not totally sure, when I feel more enlightened I'll tell you what I did. :)


I know a change like this is in store, because it's the truth when people say you really don't need game or lines to pick up chicks, you just gotta be happy with who you are and like your life and they'll come.
s***, you are already more enlightened than 98% of the folks on here. maybe they should be asking you for advice.

if i knew how or what giving reps was i would go ahead and send some your way. however, i am clueless on the matter.
 

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i'd say it's 50/50 on the smoking tobacco products. there's girls who smoke and are extremely attractive and there's also girls who don't smoke that fall into the same catagory. if you smoke, it's a great bonus. nothing better than a good bang and then light one up together.

if you don't smoke then girls are not going to look attractive and smell pretty gross. us smokers can't smell our own stink. when i used to go to the bar i used to look for the ones on the dance floor that smoked because i always hated dating non-smokers because overtime i noticed the girls wouldn't mind me smoking through the infatuation period but complain after the puppydog love phase was over. i would love to quit someday again because you just can't have a smoke in peace anymore.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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