"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'm going to ask her out, but what if she can't?

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I'm gonna ask her out tmorrow, and the situation is this:

we get along great, she has no money this week... but I do so I'm going to invite her in case she tells me she's broke.

is that ok?

now, what if she really can't, and she says that next weekend may be fine...

or what if she doesn't say that next weekend is fine, should I say it?

I have no answers in that situation... I'm a little lost

tnx
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Lost eh? Go ask, and if you get a no, who cares bud, you have a life, don't you?
 
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white cloud 8

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dude....what is the big deal? so what if she can't go, can't u ask another girl to go?

BTW: don't put all your eggs in one basket (don't just focus on one girl, u should be out meeting other girls as well) :up:
 
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Originally posted by sam21
I'm gonna ask her out tmorrow, and the situation is this:

we get along great, she has no money this week... but I do so I'm going to invite her in case she tells me she's broke.

is that ok?

now, what if she really can't, and she says that next weekend may be fine...

or what if she doesn't say that next weekend is fine, should I say it?

I have no answers in that situation... I'm a little lost

tnx
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Man you sound confused as hell-its like some guy said earlier in a post-ask her, if she says no you still have a life-so go ahead ask her.
"Turn fear into curiosity"
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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