"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm going to ask her out, but what if she can't?

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I'm gonna ask her out tmorrow, and the situation is this:

we get along great, she has no money this week... but I do so I'm going to invite her in case she tells me she's broke.

is that ok?

now, what if she really can't, and she says that next weekend may be fine...

or what if she doesn't say that next weekend is fine, should I say it?

I have no answers in that situation... I'm a little lost

tnx
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

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Lost eh? Go ask, and if you get a no, who cares bud, you have a life, don't you?
 
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white cloud 8

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dude....what is the big deal? so what if she can't go, can't u ask another girl to go?

BTW: don't put all your eggs in one basket (don't just focus on one girl, u should be out meeting other girls as well) :up:
 
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Originally posted by sam21
I'm gonna ask her out tmorrow, and the situation is this:

we get along great, she has no money this week... but I do so I'm going to invite her in case she tells me she's broke.

is that ok?

now, what if she really can't, and she says that next weekend may be fine...

or what if she doesn't say that next weekend is fine, should I say it?

I have no answers in that situation... I'm a little lost

tnx
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Man you sound confused as hell-its like some guy said earlier in a post-ask her, if she says no you still have a life-so go ahead ask her.
"Turn fear into curiosity"
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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