"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'm going to ask her out, but what if she can't?

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I'm gonna ask her out tmorrow, and the situation is this:

we get along great, she has no money this week... but I do so I'm going to invite her in case she tells me she's broke.

is that ok?

now, what if she really can't, and she says that next weekend may be fine...

or what if she doesn't say that next weekend is fine, should I say it?

I have no answers in that situation... I'm a little lost

tnx
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Lost eh? Go ask, and if you get a no, who cares bud, you have a life, don't you?
 
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white cloud 8

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dude....what is the big deal? so what if she can't go, can't u ask another girl to go?

BTW: don't put all your eggs in one basket (don't just focus on one girl, u should be out meeting other girls as well) :up:
 
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Originally posted by sam21
I'm gonna ask her out tmorrow, and the situation is this:

we get along great, she has no money this week... but I do so I'm going to invite her in case she tells me she's broke.

is that ok?

now, what if she really can't, and she says that next weekend may be fine...

or what if she doesn't say that next weekend is fine, should I say it?

I have no answers in that situation... I'm a little lost

tnx
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Man you sound confused as hell-its like some guy said earlier in a post-ask her, if she says no you still have a life-so go ahead ask her.
"Turn fear into curiosity"
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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