"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm going to ask her out, but what if she can't?

sam21

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I'm gonna ask her out tmorrow, and the situation is this:

we get along great, she has no money this week... but I do so I'm going to invite her in case she tells me she's broke.

is that ok?

now, what if she really can't, and she says that next weekend may be fine...

or what if she doesn't say that next weekend is fine, should I say it?

I have no answers in that situation... I'm a little lost

tnx
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DonJuanMonk

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Lost eh? Go ask, and if you get a no, who cares bud, you have a life, don't you?
 

white cloud 8

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dude....what is the big deal? so what if she can't go, can't u ask another girl to go?

BTW: don't put all your eggs in one basket (don't just focus on one girl, u should be out meeting other girls as well) :up:
 

Freeman

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Originally posted by sam21
I'm gonna ask her out tmorrow, and the situation is this:

we get along great, she has no money this week... but I do so I'm going to invite her in case she tells me she's broke.

is that ok?

now, what if she really can't, and she says that next weekend may be fine...

or what if she doesn't say that next weekend is fine, should I say it?

I have no answers in that situation... I'm a little lost

tnx

Man you sound confused as hell-its like some guy said earlier in a post-ask her, if she says no you still have a life-so go ahead ask her.
"Turn fear into curiosity"
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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