just so suave
Senior Don Juan
Nice man, just be sure to keep your hair shaped up, and shave the hair at the back of your head.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Yeah definitely work on looking the best you can like naes did, because you will feel good for making the effort as well as looking good. I truly believe that 99% of people could look good if they worked at it hard enough.LostAndConfused said:Honestly, would you approach an HB1 if she was the coolest person on earth, wanting to go out with her?
I wouldn't. Maybe to chat her up a bit, because she's interesting to talk to, but I would NEVER go out with her.
Its a double standard here folks, why would you expect women to just look at your personality if you're butt ugly?
The key here is to work on improving your looks to the best of your ability, like naes did, and afterward to shape your personality.
exactlyLostAndConfused said:Honestly, would you approach an HB1 if she was the coolest person on earth, wanting to go out with her?
I wouldn't. Maybe to chat her up a bit, because she's interesting to talk to, but I would NEVER go out with her.
Its a double standard here folks, why would you expect women to just look at your personality if you're butt ugly?
The key here is to work on improving your looks to the best of your ability, like naes did, and afterward to shape your personality.
ok, weellll, i used to be that kid who came to school in pajama pants and some old sweater, i looked greasy and never cut my hair, i just didnt give a **** about anything execpt smoking some dank weed and getting the **** out of school each day..brett012 said:I HAVE to know this: exactly how nice are you dressing? What exact clothes? I want this attention too! Then again maybe it's different in high school.
i dont think its as much as my clothes as it is the overall transformation and now people being able to see my whole face and body, i used to have me hair cover my face, and now the full face is visablebrett012 said:well it sure is tougher in college! I can dress to school with a button shirt and a real nice jacket and I won't get as much attention as you.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.