just so suave
Senior Don Juan
Nice man, just be sure to keep your hair shaped up, and shave the hair at the back of your head.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Yeah definitely work on looking the best you can like naes did, because you will feel good for making the effort as well as looking good. I truly believe that 99% of people could look good if they worked at it hard enough.LostAndConfused said:Honestly, would you approach an HB1 if she was the coolest person on earth, wanting to go out with her?
I wouldn't. Maybe to chat her up a bit, because she's interesting to talk to, but I would NEVER go out with her.
Its a double standard here folks, why would you expect women to just look at your personality if you're butt ugly?
The key here is to work on improving your looks to the best of your ability, like naes did, and afterward to shape your personality.
exactlyLostAndConfused said:Honestly, would you approach an HB1 if she was the coolest person on earth, wanting to go out with her?
I wouldn't. Maybe to chat her up a bit, because she's interesting to talk to, but I would NEVER go out with her.
Its a double standard here folks, why would you expect women to just look at your personality if you're butt ugly?
The key here is to work on improving your looks to the best of your ability, like naes did, and afterward to shape your personality.
ok, weellll, i used to be that kid who came to school in pajama pants and some old sweater, i looked greasy and never cut my hair, i just didnt give a **** about anything execpt smoking some dank weed and getting the **** out of school each day..brett012 said:I HAVE to know this: exactly how nice are you dressing? What exact clothes? I want this attention too! Then again maybe it's different in high school.
i dont think its as much as my clothes as it is the overall transformation and now people being able to see my whole face and body, i used to have me hair cover my face, and now the full face is visablebrett012 said:well it sure is tougher in college! I can dress to school with a button shirt and a real nice jacket and I won't get as much attention as you.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.