Im getting checked out...alot...

[just so suave]

Nice man, just be sure to keep your hair shaped up, and shave the hair at the back of your head.

 

[The Grey Fox]

Good going man!

I have to disagree with your statement about looks though. I'm sorry but I've seen too many examples of how important personality is when it comes down to this, looks do make things easier, but honestly I think personality counts for 3/4 and looks 1/4. But like playa99 said when you feel good about your looks your personality and mood get a major boost to.

I saw this episode of keys to the vip, and there was this guy who was ugly and had a really strange accent yet he was getting all the girls while this built up good looking guy was struggling badly.

And I am not saying this just to make me feel better because I am a tall and dark haired, fairly good looking guy.

 

[Crazy Asian]

don't post how important YOU think looks are.

looks are only as important as each person believes them to be.

let them have their own opinions and be comfortable with them.

 

[LostAndConfused]

Honestly, would you approach an HB1 if she was the coolest person on earth, wanting to go out with her?

I wouldn't. Maybe to chat her up a bit, because she's interesting to talk to, but I would NEVER go out with her.

Its a double standard here folks, why would you expect women to just look at your personality if you're butt ugly?

The key here is to work on improving your looks to the best of your ability, like naes did, and afterward to shape your personality.

 

[Chase12]

Heh i know its pretty weird..

Ive had groups of girls shouting stuff like "hottie,etc etc" and stare at me on the mall.. usually when im alone or with a friend tho, not with a bunch of guys... i kno it feels damn good..

Ive never really used metrosexual clothes those... just the usual surfer style.. i even have sorta long wavy hair.. never really feel good on really metro clothes.. although i do use tight shirts/sorta tight pants.. dont wanna look like a rapper..

But bleh theres usually nuthing you can do about it... you could tell them... "well if im so hot y dontcha gimme ur number" with a smile on ur face.. i dunno im sorta shy too...

 

[The Grey Fox]

Honestly, would you approach an HB1 if she was the coolest person on earth, wanting to go out with her?

I wouldn't. Maybe to chat her up a bit, because she's interesting to talk to, but I would NEVER go out with her.

Its a double standard here folks, why would you expect women to just look at your personality if you're butt ugly?

The key here is to work on improving your looks to the best of your ability, like naes did, and afterward to shape your personality.

Yeah definitely work on looking the best you can like naes did, because you will feel good for making the effort as well as looking good. I truly believe that 99% of people could look good if they worked at it hard enough.

Double standard or not it's natures way, take any species of mammal you want, the alpha male gets his pick of the females and I very much doubt that the alpha male is the pretty boy in all circumstances. We have to accept that different rules apply for male and female because they are opposite sexes completely.

But back to the point I think it has as much to do with you knowing you look good and feeling good about yourself. Just try walking hurriedly staring down at the ground and not making eye contact with anybody, still getting checked out as much?

Maybe butt ugly people will really have no chance of getting a nice girl but anyone half decent could be in with a shout in my opinion. Ofcourse I could be wrong but that's just what I think anyway.

 

[GaryUranga]

I swear to god once you become attractive (and I dont mean hot but attractive body language all thtas stuff isntant attraction) the weirdest things happen.
ive had my ass grabbed by randoms about 3 times, 1 of those times it was 2 girls at once, been called hot out of the blue a lot sometimes even get girls being pervs, cants say I ever hard this attention when I walked lookign at the floor and acted like a goofball

 

[naes420]

Honestly, would you approach an HB1 if she was the coolest person on earth, wanting to go out with her?

I wouldn't. Maybe to chat her up a bit, because she's interesting to talk to, but I would NEVER go out with her.

Its a double standard here folks, why would you expect women to just look at your personality if you're butt ugly?

The key here is to work on improving your looks to the best of your ability, like naes did, and afterward to shape your personality.

exactly

double standards here douche bags!!!

 

[naes420]

I HAVE to know this: exactly how nice are you dressing? What exact clothes? I want this attention too! Then again maybe it's different in high school.

ok, weellll, i used to be that kid who came to school in pajama pants and some old sweater, i looked greasy and never cut my hair, i just didnt give a **** about anything execpt smoking some dank weed and getting the **** out of school each day..


then i met my sister, got in touch with my roots (i am persian, just whiter then the average persian) i cut my hair mediam short, short in the back, a little above my eyebrows in the front, but i part it to the left so it shows my whole face and forehead, i wear black jeans, useualy a nice looking sweater or jacket, and sometimes real nice shirts if i go anywhere after school. i also am focused on becoming a doctor after highschool and i think that is one of the MAJOR factors in this. i had no motivation to do **** before, now, i dont care about anything at all but becoming a doctor, and mabye having some dank weed for the weekends , i dont even care about my friends as cruel as that sounds, and it turns girls on, i think, i dont give a **** about anything but my future. plus im hot. if anyone wants ill send before and after pics if you so request, i mean, not like any of you actualy know me...chances are liek what, 1 in 1101000000. i hate to brag but i think i am beautiful enough some men would go gay for me LOL

 

[naes420]

well it sure is tougher in college! I can dress to school with a button shirt and a real nice jacket and I won't get as much attention as you.

i dont think its as much as my clothes as it is the overall transformation and now people being able to see my whole face and body, i used to have me hair cover my face, and now the full face is visable