"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How do I start and intersting convo on msn messenger with chicks? I mean like..what should I talk to them about?

It's just that when on msn messenger I really don't feel like talking to them that much...don't know why..=\. But anyway I want to do something about this. So can you guys give me some tips?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Moved to Don Juan Discussion.
 
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omg I didn't mean to post that in the wrong section...i thought I was in the Discussion board lol my bad:D
 
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Originally posted by eric66
So can you guys give me some tips?
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There are seven steps that are sure to get you on the right track...

1. open the closet door
2. roll out a giant cannon
3. blast it right into your computer and through the wall
4. roll your cannon back into the closet
5. step outside
6. go meet some living breathing people in the fresh air
7. hang out with them and have a verbal conversation.

There you go... Have fun...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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