"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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eric66

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How do I start and intersting convo on msn messenger with chicks? I mean like..what should I talk to them about?

It's just that when on msn messenger I really don't feel like talking to them that much...don't know why..=\. But anyway I want to do something about this. So can you guys give me some tips?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Moved to Don Juan Discussion.
 

eric66

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omg I didn't mean to post that in the wrong section...i thought I was in the Discussion board lol my bad:D
 

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Originally posted by eric66
So can you guys give me some tips?
There are seven steps that are sure to get you on the right track...

1. open the closet door
2. roll out a giant cannon
3. blast it right into your computer and through the wall
4. roll your cannon back into the closet
5. step outside
6. go meet some living breathing people in the fresh air
7. hang out with them and have a verbal conversation.

There you go... Have fun...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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