"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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eric66

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How do I start and intersting convo on msn messenger with chicks? I mean like..what should I talk to them about?

It's just that when on msn messenger I really don't feel like talking to them that much...don't know why..=\. But anyway I want to do something about this. So can you guys give me some tips?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Moved to Don Juan Discussion.
 

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omg I didn't mean to post that in the wrong section...i thought I was in the Discussion board lol my bad:D
 

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Originally posted by eric66
So can you guys give me some tips?
There are seven steps that are sure to get you on the right track...

1. open the closet door
2. roll out a giant cannon
3. blast it right into your computer and through the wall
4. roll your cannon back into the closet
5. step outside
6. go meet some living breathing people in the fresh air
7. hang out with them and have a verbal conversation.

There you go... Have fun...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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