"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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eric66

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How do I start and intersting convo on msn messenger with chicks? I mean like..what should I talk to them about?

It's just that when on msn messenger I really don't feel like talking to them that much...don't know why..=\. But anyway I want to do something about this. So can you guys give me some tips?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Moved to Don Juan Discussion.
 

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omg I didn't mean to post that in the wrong section...i thought I was in the Discussion board lol my bad:D
 

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Originally posted by eric66
So can you guys give me some tips?
There are seven steps that are sure to get you on the right track...

1. open the closet door
2. roll out a giant cannon
3. blast it right into your computer and through the wall
4. roll your cannon back into the closet
5. step outside
6. go meet some living breathing people in the fresh air
7. hang out with them and have a verbal conversation.

There you go... Have fun...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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