"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

I'm confused & upset

L

Leporello

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 18, 2003
Messages
955
Reaction score
13
Location
DC
Right. So I've been seeing this girl... whenever we're together, we have a great time. But she makes no effort to contact me after we meet, she's difficult to get in touch with, and she has fairly violent mood swings - but only when I'm talking to her online or over the phone. In person, she's wonderful.

so what gives? I've wasted alot of time on this already, and I don't want to give her some kind of uultimatum. It just sems ridiculous to me, if she enjoys herself so much when she's with me, why she'll never initate.

Any ideas/plans?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

B

blienk

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 4, 2003
Messages
543
Reaction score
0
It's probably an aspect of her personality...not sure if there's much you can do about that.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top