Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I'm confused & upset

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Leporello

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Right. So I've been seeing this girl... whenever we're together, we have a great time. But she makes no effort to contact me after we meet, she's difficult to get in touch with, and she has fairly violent mood swings - but only when I'm talking to her online or over the phone. In person, she's wonderful.

so what gives? I've wasted alot of time on this already, and I don't want to give her some kind of uultimatum. It just sems ridiculous to me, if she enjoys herself so much when she's with me, why she'll never initate.

Any ideas/plans?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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blienk

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It's probably an aspect of her personality...not sure if there's much you can do about that.
 
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