"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm confused & upset

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Leporello

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Right. So I've been seeing this girl... whenever we're together, we have a great time. But she makes no effort to contact me after we meet, she's difficult to get in touch with, and she has fairly violent mood swings - but only when I'm talking to her online or over the phone. In person, she's wonderful.

so what gives? I've wasted alot of time on this already, and I don't want to give her some kind of uultimatum. It just sems ridiculous to me, if she enjoys herself so much when she's with me, why she'll never initate.

Any ideas/plans?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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blienk

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It's probably an aspect of her personality...not sure if there's much you can do about that.
 
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