"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm confused & upset

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Leporello

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Right. So I've been seeing this girl... whenever we're together, we have a great time. But she makes no effort to contact me after we meet, she's difficult to get in touch with, and she has fairly violent mood swings - but only when I'm talking to her online or over the phone. In person, she's wonderful.

so what gives? I've wasted alot of time on this already, and I don't want to give her some kind of uultimatum. It just sems ridiculous to me, if she enjoys herself so much when she's with me, why she'll never initate.

Any ideas/plans?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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blienk

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It's probably an aspect of her personality...not sure if there's much you can do about that.
 
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