She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I was, I just want to turn it up a notch...DonJoseCantosie said:Wait...ChrizZ...i thought u were approaching already?
Yes, I know...Last Man Standing said:It has nothing to do with numbers kid!! Only go after a woman to who you are attracted!!
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Who's "Gunwitch"? That's a cool quote by the way.....I've noticed it to be true.DonJoseCantosie said:Edit: as what Gunwitch said, for which i agree with, the girls who u most desire most likely are girls whom desire you as well.
Sup bud. Gunwitch is a seduction guru, who is more for "sexual state" game and same day lays. Google Dynamic Sex Life and u can see his site. He was once a poster here at sosuave who actually gave out a free sample of his method.magnet7 said:Who's "Gunwitch"? That's a cool quote by the way.....I've noticed it to be true.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Why not? I told you I learned this **** and tried what was out back then. Mystery had just come out and is the only style I didn't try. But it was no different than the other stuff.DjDan said:LOL I can't believe i am reading this. lol.
Very cosmopolitan . . .TheRealSupreme said:Those girls are probably so stupid they can't tell where your accent is from you could even say something cool like Brasille or France. Not that being from Germany isn't cool Chris.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
What I was going to say.One other thing, you talk WAY too much about yourself. They'd rather talk to you about their-selves. It usually works out if your more of a mystery until you go out on the date.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.