"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Aight, let's do this fellas.

I'm seriously gonna start approaching now.

I'll post my approaches in here so that you guys can give me feedback.

Let the game begin!!!!!!!!!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Wait...ChrizZ...i thought u were approaching already?
 

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DonJoseCantosie said:
Wait...ChrizZ...i thought u were approaching already?
I was, I just want to turn it up a notch...

My first goal is to get at least 5 solid numbers a week.
 
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It has nothing to do with numbers kid!! Only go after a woman to who you are attracted!!
 

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Last Man Standing said:
It has nothing to do with numbers kid!! Only go after a woman to who you are attracted!!
Yes, I know...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yea...i learned that lesson quite a bit. I ultimately realized, go for the women u are mostly attracted to. I tended to get rejected more from the ones i "wasn't" really attracted to when i was getting over AA compared to the ones i actually was.

Edit: as what Gunwitch said, for which i agree with, the girls who u most desire most likely are girls whom desire you as well.
 

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DonJoseCantosie said:
Edit: as what Gunwitch said, for which i agree with, the girls who u most desire most likely are girls whom desire you as well.
Who's "Gunwitch"? That's a cool quote by the way.....I've noticed it to be true.
 

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Who's "Gunwitch"? That's a cool quote by the way.....I've noticed it to be true.
Sup bud. Gunwitch is a seduction guru, who is more for "sexual state" game and same day lays. Google Dynamic Sex Life and u can see his site. He was once a poster here at sosuave who actually gave out a free sample of his method.

Yea, that quote seems true as if most guys can relate...if ur immediately attracted to a girl...she most likely will be attracted to u...prolly cuz of the vibe that u are having. But this is usually when u have made urself more attractive.
 

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I'm planning on using Mystery Method on my approaches though.
 

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yea...just telling Magnet about Gunwitch. But even if u use MM, i still feel that quote still applies...even if ur using indirect.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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did 3 approaches so far.

#1

I was standing in line and saw two hotties in front of me.

Me: "Hey, let me ask you guys a question...I want a serious answer though...Do I look like a drug dealer?"

Them: "No, why?"

Me: "Because I was walking outside and then suddenly to girls were coming up to me and they were like *putting arm around one chick* 'Hey, do you got some weed?' and they were acting all *****y about it when I told them no.

Them: Omg, really!!!

Me: Yeah, American girls are weird.

Them: Where are you from?

Me: I'm from Germany blablabla. So, what have you guys been up to?

Them: Oh, we were just studying.

Me: Really. I'm having a party tonight at my dorm, you guys should come.

Them: Sure, where is it at...

Me: It's at blablaba.

...then that one chick said, hey we gotta get going now and pulled the other chick away because the other hot chick was into me! That kinda sucked.

#2
Two 7s were sitting at a table.

I sit at the table behind them.

Me: "Hey, I got a question for you guys. What are some good bars to check out around the area?"

Them: "Blablabla"

Me: "Oh, cool. I've been to those bars already though with my friends. There isn't a lot going on here really. Unlike where I just moved from."

Them: "Where did you move from?"

Me: "I'm originally from Germany, but I just moved here from California. California is so different...*going into DHV story*

Them: "Oh, cool. We have to get going though. It was nice meeting ya. Have fun!"

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I could feel that it wasn't going anywhere cuz they weren't attracted to me.


#3

Saw a hot chick at the bookstore.

Me: *Did the drug dealer thing again*

her: so where are you from?

Me: Germany, but I just moved here from Cali.

her: Oh, really. I'm from Illinois, but I've been to Florida before.

Me: So have you tried surfing then?

her: No.

Me: Well, *going into DHV story*

her: It was nice meeting ya, but I gotta get to class.

Me: okay


...a clear rejection here.

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I know what I'm doing wrong though. I have to be more direct during day game because my approaches come off as try hard.
 

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For my opinion, yea...direct game is definitely better for day game. But also remember, keep with MM even if u get rejected afew times.
 
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I hate to spit some advice on ho chasing but you shouldn't insult American girls in America. Especially if you sound like Arnold No Last Name Necessary.

Unfortunately the german accent isn't all that cool but at least it is different than the boring midwestern accents. But at least you can get some milage out of being from Germany. Next time just say your from Switzerland or something just to see what happens. Here we think better of that country than Germany. Also your out in the area where a lot of norwegian and folks from around there settled down along with german decendants.

Those girls are probably so stupid they can't tell where your accent is from you could even say something cool like Brasille or France. Not that being from Germany isn't cool Chris.

You also said something interesting. You could tell they were not attracted to you. That isn't suppose to be important in MM. So keep strokin like your doing until you get rejected. Remember it's a numbers game. It will take you x amount of approaches to get 1 number. Of those numbers it will take x amount to get 1 date. Of those 1 dates it will take x amounts to get a day 2 or 3 to get 1 lay.

The better looking you are the more that value of "x" changes! Everyone has their own value of "x" that will be prevelant in their game.

When your doing MM follow it by the book. Opener to A1 and all that.

Don't feel down or carry the negative energy with you after you get rejected. It is hard going for a 2 set as you guys call it.


Keep on how do you say it .....Sarging?

Good luck.
 
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DjDan said:
LOL I can't believe i am reading this. lol.
Why not? I told you I learned this **** and tried what was out back then. Mystery had just come out and is the only style I didn't try. But it was no different than the other stuff.

And my forumula is what I learned about the PUA thing. It is a matter of numbers. Approach enough girls and you will eventually get a lay.

And if you are attractive enough your "x" value does go up.

And I have no problem trying to help ole chrisz here out on his path. It won't faze me one bit to spit him some advice.
 

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Those girls are probably so stupid they can't tell where your accent is from you could even say something cool like Brasille or France. Not that being from Germany isn't cool Chris.
Very cosmopolitan . . .

Advice like this brothers would have turned gay.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Dude, when I approach women. I never know what I'm going to say. I never have prebuilt stories. I never have points to get across, and it works. I just see all these guys tell odd stories or ask weird questions, and I'm just like be yourself. The girls usually reject it. They may have a little fun and tease you, but 9 times out of 10. I see a crash and burn. Just go up to a girl and see what happens. If it's fireworks, we go out. If it's cold, I'll just break it off. It makes it way more interesting for anyone.

One other thing, you talk WAY too much about yourself. They'd rather talk to you about their-selves. It usually works out if your more of a mystery until you go out on the date.
 

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One other thing, you talk WAY too much about yourself. They'd rather talk to you about their-selves. It usually works out if your more of a mystery until you go out on the date.
What I was going to say.

Didn't try and get any of their numbers?
 

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Okay so I just came back from a club. I decided to cut the bullsh!t with the routines and stuff.

The club was small and as usual there were 75% dudes in there and like two hot chicks.


#4
I enter the club and see a kinda chubby chick with a good face checking me out so I walk over there. She was there with her female friend and another guy.

Me:"Hey, how are you guys doing tonight?!"

Her: "Good!"

Me: *turning to the chick that checked me out* You know, if you look at me like that you can also talk to me... BIATCH!!! (lol j/k)

Her: *giggles* I'm Lindsey. What's your name?

Me: "I'm Chris. I tell you what, when my favorite song comes on we'll dance."

Her: "Yeah, I'd like that!"

I eject because I honestly didn't find her that attractive, but I still kept my option open by telling her I was gonna dance with her.

#5
I see a hot chick with another female friend.

I walk up to them.

Me: "Hey, what's going on guys?"

*they are totally smiling at this point*

*I turn around to the hot chick.*

Me: "You are gorgeous"

*backs away, but smiles*

Me: "What's your name?"

HB: I don't wanna tell.

Me: Ok, too bad. Well, have fun guys...

She was either creeped out or intimidated by me.

#6

Then a hot b!tch started giving me EC on the dance floor and I started dancing with her.

She was a tease though. She might have been a lesbian because she made out with her girlfriend on the dance floor later on. She ejected after a while and a big steroid dude started dancing with her and then she made him all horney and then she ejected again after a while. An Attention *****.
 

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Haha, I just read something that I'm gonna apply tomorrow.

Get ready for some more interesting field reports to say the least lol.
 

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Make sure you are wearing at least 2.5 suits for every approach. Failproof method, field tested.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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