Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I was, I just want to turn it up a notch...DonJoseCantosie said:Wait...ChrizZ...i thought u were approaching already?
Yes, I know...Last Man Standing said:It has nothing to do with numbers kid!! Only go after a woman to who you are attracted!!
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Who's "Gunwitch"? That's a cool quote by the way.....I've noticed it to be true.DonJoseCantosie said:Edit: as what Gunwitch said, for which i agree with, the girls who u most desire most likely are girls whom desire you as well.
Sup bud. Gunwitch is a seduction guru, who is more for "sexual state" game and same day lays. Google Dynamic Sex Life and u can see his site. He was once a poster here at sosuave who actually gave out a free sample of his method.magnet7 said:Who's "Gunwitch"? That's a cool quote by the way.....I've noticed it to be true.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Why not? I told you I learned this **** and tried what was out back then. Mystery had just come out and is the only style I didn't try. But it was no different than the other stuff.DjDan said:LOL I can't believe i am reading this. lol.
Very cosmopolitan . . .TheRealSupreme said:Those girls are probably so stupid they can't tell where your accent is from you could even say something cool like Brasille or France. Not that being from Germany isn't cool Chris.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
What I was going to say.One other thing, you talk WAY too much about yourself. They'd rather talk to you about their-selves. It usually works out if your more of a mystery until you go out on the date.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.