You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I was, I just want to turn it up a notch...DonJoseCantosie said:Wait...ChrizZ...i thought u were approaching already?
Yes, I know...Last Man Standing said:It has nothing to do with numbers kid!! Only go after a woman to who you are attracted!!
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Who's "Gunwitch"? That's a cool quote by the way.....I've noticed it to be true.DonJoseCantosie said:Edit: as what Gunwitch said, for which i agree with, the girls who u most desire most likely are girls whom desire you as well.
Sup bud. Gunwitch is a seduction guru, who is more for "sexual state" game and same day lays. Google Dynamic Sex Life and u can see his site. He was once a poster here at sosuave who actually gave out a free sample of his method.magnet7 said:Who's "Gunwitch"? That's a cool quote by the way.....I've noticed it to be true.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Why not? I told you I learned this **** and tried what was out back then. Mystery had just come out and is the only style I didn't try. But it was no different than the other stuff.DjDan said:LOL I can't believe i am reading this. lol.
Very cosmopolitan . . .TheRealSupreme said:Those girls are probably so stupid they can't tell where your accent is from you could even say something cool like Brasille or France. Not that being from Germany isn't cool Chris.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
What I was going to say.One other thing, you talk WAY too much about yourself. They'd rather talk to you about their-selves. It usually works out if your more of a mystery until you go out on the date.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.