spider_007
Master Don Juan
:nervous:
I've been f-ing up lateley, and i think today might be the last straw.
well, time to stand up like a man, and tell the boss.:nervous:
time for an ass reaming.:moon:
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Fixed.djSlvt said:Smart thing to do is quit after you have another job lined up, and don't look back.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Please stop posting in my thread. You opinion is of interast to me.djSlvt
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probably true......but somehow i feel refreshed, after i take 5-10 minutes every couple of hours and check some site out.....being A.D.D. (like half the north american population) i would burn out puirty fast. I do better when i'm under pressure and things need to be done, but lately things have been slow and i've been shifting attention to other things.....Well, the first thing you should do is focus on your job instead of posting and reading this site. You are allowing distractions into your workplace...and that is only asking for trouble.
.Start planning to jump ship before you sink with it
spider_007 said:Please stop posting in my thread. You opinion is of interast to me.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I like the job....there is usually not much stress to it, but at the same time it's not really a big challenge....there is not to many new things to learn (not that my boss is willing to actually teach me anything in the first place:moon: )backbreaker said:the question is WHY you are f'ing up. I haven't had a REAL job in a while but I remember the last job I had, I started messing stuf fup, not wanting to work long hours, oversleeping at home, because i was wanting to do something else. it's how I wired. when I'm done with something i"m done.
I work as a draughtsman for a local machine shop.Deus ex Pianoforte said:What do you do for a living, spider?
ha ha ha, I did just that~attrACTION~ said:Get yourself a body massage this weekend![]()
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.