"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i'm about the get fired.

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Wyldfire said:
Whoa...yeah...screwing up with your job is really not cool...especially if no one catches it until after production has started. You need to at least double check the schematics and especially the measurements and any gaging specifications.

You're very lucky you haven't gotten fired if you have been screwing up a lot...that costs money.
Oh, i remember now, you ware a production CNC operator once (if i remember right:rockon: ).

We do plastic injection molds....I drew something up so that we can order a $40 000 component (DME manifold and nozzles).....but I realized couple days later that it's going to be .014" too long :eek: ....lucky me, we ware able to adjust the steel to compensate on our end (before the pockets ware milled).:cheer:

my pervious f-ups basicly consisted of missing dimensions....missing details...etc.

ahhhhh, i'm stressing out just thinking about it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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spider_007 said:
Oh, i remember now, you ware a production CNC operator once (if i remember right:rockon: ).

We do plastic injection molds....I drew something up so that we can order a $40 000 component (DME manifold and nozzles).....but I realized couple days later that it's going to be .014" too long :eek: ....lucky me, we ware able to adjust the steel to compensate on our end (before the pockets ware milled).:cheer:

my pervious f-ups basicly consisted of missing dimensions....missing details...etc.

ahhhhh, i'm stressing out just thinking about it.
Yeah...that's not good. The only thing that saved your ass was the fact that you didn't have to scrap material that cost $40,000. Yep...I was a machine operator but have also set gages and done inspection having to measure out parts to make sure they were within tolerance. I've seen people get fired for a lot less than what you did.
 

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Deus ex Pianoforte said:
After you're done scolding spider like a child, you may want to look up what you used to set as a machine operator in the dictionary.
The spelling can be either gage or gauge. However, it is customary in the world of production to use "gage". I used to set 2 points, 3 points, eccentricity gages, bore plugs, elliptical gages, etc.

I'm not "chastising" him...I just know the nature of his work and how significant a mistake it is that he made. I worked at Timken Aerospace...and we made bearings for the military, commercial aircraft, NASA, etc.
 

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Oh come on guys grow up!!!!

if you got notting constructive to say, keep it to your self.

If you got a problem with somebody, put them on your ignore list, and that's that. Stay on subject or let it die.
 
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