spider_007
Master Don Juan
:nervous:
I've been f-ing up lateley, and i think today might be the last straw.
well, time to stand up like a man, and tell the boss.:nervous:
time for an ass reaming.:moon:
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Fixed.djSlvt said:Smart thing to do is quit after you have another job lined up, and don't look back.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Please stop posting in my thread. You opinion is of interast to me.djSlvt
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probably true......but somehow i feel refreshed, after i take 5-10 minutes every couple of hours and check some site out.....being A.D.D. (like half the north american population) i would burn out puirty fast. I do better when i'm under pressure and things need to be done, but lately things have been slow and i've been shifting attention to other things.....Well, the first thing you should do is focus on your job instead of posting and reading this site. You are allowing distractions into your workplace...and that is only asking for trouble.
.Start planning to jump ship before you sink with it
spider_007 said:Please stop posting in my thread. You opinion is of interast to me.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I like the job....there is usually not much stress to it, but at the same time it's not really a big challenge....there is not to many new things to learn (not that my boss is willing to actually teach me anything in the first place:moon: )backbreaker said:the question is WHY you are f'ing up. I haven't had a REAL job in a while but I remember the last job I had, I started messing stuf fup, not wanting to work long hours, oversleeping at home, because i was wanting to do something else. it's how I wired. when I'm done with something i"m done.
I work as a draughtsman for a local machine shop.Deus ex Pianoforte said:What do you do for a living, spider?
ha ha ha, I did just that~attrACTION~ said:Get yourself a body massage this weekend![]()
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.