spider_007
Master Don Juan
:nervous:
I've been f-ing up lateley, and i think today might be the last straw.
well, time to stand up like a man, and tell the boss.:nervous:
time for an ass reaming.:moon:
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Fixed.djSlvt said:Smart thing to do is quit after you have another job lined up, and don't look back.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Please stop posting in my thread. You opinion is of interast to me.djSlvt
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probably true......but somehow i feel refreshed, after i take 5-10 minutes every couple of hours and check some site out.....being A.D.D. (like half the north american population) i would burn out puirty fast. I do better when i'm under pressure and things need to be done, but lately things have been slow and i've been shifting attention to other things.....Well, the first thing you should do is focus on your job instead of posting and reading this site. You are allowing distractions into your workplace...and that is only asking for trouble.
.Start planning to jump ship before you sink with it
spider_007 said:Please stop posting in my thread. You opinion is of interast to me.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I like the job....there is usually not much stress to it, but at the same time it's not really a big challenge....there is not to many new things to learn (not that my boss is willing to actually teach me anything in the first place:moon: )backbreaker said:the question is WHY you are f'ing up. I haven't had a REAL job in a while but I remember the last job I had, I started messing stuf fup, not wanting to work long hours, oversleeping at home, because i was wanting to do something else. it's how I wired. when I'm done with something i"m done.
I work as a draughtsman for a local machine shop.Deus ex Pianoforte said:What do you do for a living, spider?
ha ha ha, I did just that~attrACTION~ said:Get yourself a body massage this weekend![]()
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.