"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Because of SoSuave my social life has increased tremendously. The problem is, on nights when I don't go out (like tonight). I get depressed and start questioning my true friends, my motives, my life, everything.

Maybe it won't happen when I get my license and can go sarging by myself and ****, but for another month or two I'm stuck like this :(
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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TheNewGuy said:
The problem is, on nights when I don't go out (like tonight). I get depressed and start questioning my true friends, my motives, my life, everything.
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I get that too.. it's annoying indeed. Also my parents don't let me be independent so that bugs me too.
 
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TheNewGuy said:
Maybe it won't happen when I get my license and can go sarging by myself and ****, but for another month or two I'm stuck like this :(
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Moved to HS.
 
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How's bout joinin' a club or something? That'll keep you occupied. Or better yet, yeah, join a sports team, trust me you'll be so tired at night you won't want to go out, you'll just want to sleep.
 
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MrConfidence said:
How's bout joinin' a club or something? That'll keep you occupied. Or better yet, yeah, join a sports team, trust me you'll be so tired at night you won't want to go out, you'll just want to sleep.
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The reason why I didn't go out tonight was because I fell at like 3 and didn't wake up until about 8. By the time I finished the work that I needed to do I couldn't go out :(

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Also my parents don't let me be independent so that bugs me too.
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Yeah, same here. Hopefully it'll change with my license.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i can totally understand where your coming from... since becoming a don juan my 'highs' are even higher, but my 'lows' are even lower. if that makes any sense
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Thats exactly what I mean. Big highs and even bigger lows.

Does anyone know why this happens, or what we can do to solve it?
 
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Same thing, it's because we are defining ourselves by these results.
 
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Still defining. You want to get out and have fun, but instead, you're sucker stuck in a house.

Meh. Invest in a guitar or something.
 
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I know what you guys mean. Getting a license helps, but there's no real way to fix that.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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thats my problem as well.
in the road to becoming an active don juna, you should become mroe social, but you're happiness shouldnt depend on your social-levle. you should be able to enjoy your alone time. every now and then I take a night off for self-please. I usually watch a movie, do some drugs[lol dont suggest this haha] or sleep it off. or do family oriented thigns. last night i went to a movie and dinner with my family. your fmaily will really like that fact that evne though to have a social life, you're not cutting them out entirely.
i suggest the family thing.
 
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