"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm a social holic

TheNewGuy

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Because of SoSuave my social life has increased tremendously. The problem is, on nights when I don't go out (like tonight). I get depressed and start questioning my true friends, my motives, my life, everything.

Maybe it won't happen when I get my license and can go sarging by myself and ****, but for another month or two I'm stuck like this :(
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dot

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TheNewGuy said:
The problem is, on nights when I don't go out (like tonight). I get depressed and start questioning my true friends, my motives, my life, everything.
I get that too.. it's annoying indeed. Also my parents don't let me be independent so that bugs me too.
 

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TheNewGuy said:
Maybe it won't happen when I get my license and can go sarging by myself and ****, but for another month or two I'm stuck like this :(
Moved to HS.
 

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How's bout joinin' a club or something? That'll keep you occupied. Or better yet, yeah, join a sports team, trust me you'll be so tired at night you won't want to go out, you'll just want to sleep.
 

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MrConfidence said:
How's bout joinin' a club or something? That'll keep you occupied. Or better yet, yeah, join a sports team, trust me you'll be so tired at night you won't want to go out, you'll just want to sleep.
The reason why I didn't go out tonight was because I fell at like 3 and didn't wake up until about 8. By the time I finished the work that I needed to do I couldn't go out :(

dot said:
Also my parents don't let me be independent so that bugs me too.
Yeah, same here. Hopefully it'll change with my license.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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TheNewGuy

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Noob said:
i can totally understand where your coming from... since becoming a don juan my 'highs' are even higher, but my 'lows' are even lower. if that makes any sense
Thats exactly what I mean. Big highs and even bigger lows.

Does anyone know why this happens, or what we can do to solve it?
 

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Same thing, it's because we are defining ourselves by these results.
 

Docs

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Still defining. You want to get out and have fun, but instead, you're sucker stuck in a house.

Meh. Invest in a guitar or something.
 

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I know what you guys mean. Getting a license helps, but there's no real way to fix that.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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thats my problem as well.
in the road to becoming an active don juna, you should become mroe social, but you're happiness shouldnt depend on your social-levle. you should be able to enjoy your alone time. every now and then I take a night off for self-please. I usually watch a movie, do some drugs[lol dont suggest this haha] or sleep it off. or do family oriented thigns. last night i went to a movie and dinner with my family. your fmaily will really like that fact that evne though to have a social life, you're not cutting them out entirely.
i suggest the family thing.
 
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