"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'm a girl

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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dancin-diva00

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So you think I'm that porn star chick. I'm sure hubby will get a kick out of that. Maybe he and I should make another flick.

What reason could I possibly have for being here....Get to meet different types of people. Learn a few things about what makes men tick. (yes you are mysterious at times) and just have fun. I noticed a couple of other girly type screen names so I thought I'd just give it a go.

Btw.....hubby got me because he was charming but somewhat distant. He always made sure that I knew he was into me, but that he wouldn't put up with any ****, and that he knew exactly where the door was. I've been married six years and he still makes me wonder what he's thinking sometimes.
 

Shiz Nizzle

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Would you mind submitting naked photographs of yourself for verification purposes ?
 

DJ_in_making

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it's only a matter of time b4 this great website is completely feminized......:(
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Royal-tiger

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Originally posted by dancin-diva00
What's the opinion of allowing women here? I think this place is interesting and I would love to hang out for a while.
Just wondering why would you ask that since you already have joined the forum (by registering)? You are not retarded, are you?? :p
 

Fender

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Why on earth is a site dedicated to meeting, connecting and sexing girls be so AFRAID of a female within our boards???

Snap out of it guys and stop being such misogynist's.

-fender-
 

Logen

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Originally posted by Fender
Why on earth is a site dedicated to meeting, connecting and sexing girls be so AFRAID of a female within our boards???

Snap out of it guys and stop being such misogynist's.

-fender-
yea i totally agree. i'd think that the members here would say better things. we got guys flaming females, guys begging for hot pics of her. this is typical AFC behavior.
 

Mr. Unique

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Well we have to keep a close eye, cause the last female was really a black guy impersonating a white girl.

Diva are you married to a black guy?
 

spider_007

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ha ha, for some reason you just sound like a 5 year old. (no that wasn't ment as an insult at all, it's just the way you came accross).

we don't mind women here, as long as they can back up their ideas (comments) with some good discussion from which we can all benefit. If you think something is not going to work please let us know why (in detail) instead of just disagreeing. Also keep an open mind. Who knows, maybe you'll realize something about your self, that you never did.

Also, 90% of people on this forum couldn't get laid in a manner of a week, if their life depended on it (but they are good at talking sh1t)....... just something to keep in mind.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Alicorn

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
she knows more then you do or just about every guy here

happy new yr
You're marrying the girl you knocked up and are self-deluted enough to believe you "love" her. You have no credibility so STFU.
 

dancin-diva00

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Nope I'm not married to a black guy.

That's great that I sound like a five year old. Is it the politeness?

I asked if it was okay, because I don't want to intrude or post if I am unwelcome. I would completely understand.

I will only give input if I am being honest and have some sort of idea that I am not unique in my opinion. I know that women are complex and that what I may believe to be true will not work for all women.
 

Mr. Unique

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BE QUIET WOMEN! You are now property of Sosuave.com and to be ordered to do whatever the Don juans tell you to do. you will refer to them as master. You will also have to post pics of your self daily to keep the perverts browsing this site stable, dont be surprised if your pm box is full of perverted messages, these guys are being easy on you right now cause your new, those are the rules just ask penkitten and wildfyre. Welcome To board!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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