"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm a girl

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dancin-diva00

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So you think I'm that porn star chick. I'm sure hubby will get a kick out of that. Maybe he and I should make another flick.

What reason could I possibly have for being here....Get to meet different types of people. Learn a few things about what makes men tick. (yes you are mysterious at times) and just have fun. I noticed a couple of other girly type screen names so I thought I'd just give it a go.

Btw.....hubby got me because he was charming but somewhat distant. He always made sure that I knew he was into me, but that he wouldn't put up with any ****, and that he knew exactly where the door was. I've been married six years and he still makes me wonder what he's thinking sometimes.
 

Shiz Nizzle

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Would you mind submitting naked photographs of yourself for verification purposes ?
 

DJ_in_making

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it's only a matter of time b4 this great website is completely feminized......:(
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Royal-tiger

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Originally posted by dancin-diva00
What's the opinion of allowing women here? I think this place is interesting and I would love to hang out for a while.
Just wondering why would you ask that since you already have joined the forum (by registering)? You are not retarded, are you?? :p
 

Fender

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Why on earth is a site dedicated to meeting, connecting and sexing girls be so AFRAID of a female within our boards???

Snap out of it guys and stop being such misogynist's.

-fender-
 

Logen

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Originally posted by Fender
Why on earth is a site dedicated to meeting, connecting and sexing girls be so AFRAID of a female within our boards???

Snap out of it guys and stop being such misogynist's.

-fender-
yea i totally agree. i'd think that the members here would say better things. we got guys flaming females, guys begging for hot pics of her. this is typical AFC behavior.
 

Mr. Unique

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Well we have to keep a close eye, cause the last female was really a black guy impersonating a white girl.

Diva are you married to a black guy?
 

spider_007

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ha ha, for some reason you just sound like a 5 year old. (no that wasn't ment as an insult at all, it's just the way you came accross).

we don't mind women here, as long as they can back up their ideas (comments) with some good discussion from which we can all benefit. If you think something is not going to work please let us know why (in detail) instead of just disagreeing. Also keep an open mind. Who knows, maybe you'll realize something about your self, that you never did.

Also, 90% of people on this forum couldn't get laid in a manner of a week, if their life depended on it (but they are good at talking sh1t)....... just something to keep in mind.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Alicorn

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
she knows more then you do or just about every guy here

happy new yr
You're marrying the girl you knocked up and are self-deluted enough to believe you "love" her. You have no credibility so STFU.
 

dancin-diva00

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Nope I'm not married to a black guy.

That's great that I sound like a five year old. Is it the politeness?

I asked if it was okay, because I don't want to intrude or post if I am unwelcome. I would completely understand.

I will only give input if I am being honest and have some sort of idea that I am not unique in my opinion. I know that women are complex and that what I may believe to be true will not work for all women.
 

Mr. Unique

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BE QUIET WOMEN! You are now property of Sosuave.com and to be ordered to do whatever the Don juans tell you to do. you will refer to them as master. You will also have to post pics of your self daily to keep the perverts browsing this site stable, dont be surprised if your pm box is full of perverted messages, these guys are being easy on you right now cause your new, those are the rules just ask penkitten and wildfyre. Welcome To board!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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