"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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'I'm a bit of a sleazebag'

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So there was the work do last week. I had a few drinks and whilst I never look like I'm drunk, my inhibitions are gone and I become very flirtatious with the ladies. Quite a few colleagues I was apparently getting physical with. Acting sexual, trying to kiss etc.

anyway, so one of these female colleagues said to me yesterday - 'you're a bit of a sleazebag when drunk.'

she was joking but then again i dont think she was if you know what i mean. not sure if i like being known as the office sleazebag.
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Do something about it then..i.e Don't be a sleazebag!
 

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This is why you don't mess with women at work or hang out with work people. Once you intertwine your private life with the workplace you're never seen in the same light. The respect bar lowers to a bad level.
 
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