"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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'I'm a bit of a sleazebag'

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So there was the work do last week. I had a few drinks and whilst I never look like I'm drunk, my inhibitions are gone and I become very flirtatious with the ladies. Quite a few colleagues I was apparently getting physical with. Acting sexual, trying to kiss etc.

anyway, so one of these female colleagues said to me yesterday - 'you're a bit of a sleazebag when drunk.'

she was joking but then again i dont think she was if you know what i mean. not sure if i like being known as the office sleazebag.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Do something about it then..i.e Don't be a sleazebag!
 
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This is why you don't mess with women at work or hang out with work people. Once you intertwine your private life with the workplace you're never seen in the same light. The respect bar lowers to a bad level.
 
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