"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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'I'm a bit of a sleazebag'

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So there was the work do last week. I had a few drinks and whilst I never look like I'm drunk, my inhibitions are gone and I become very flirtatious with the ladies. Quite a few colleagues I was apparently getting physical with. Acting sexual, trying to kiss etc.

anyway, so one of these female colleagues said to me yesterday - 'you're a bit of a sleazebag when drunk.'

she was joking but then again i dont think she was if you know what i mean. not sure if i like being known as the office sleazebag.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Do something about it then..i.e Don't be a sleazebag!
 
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This is why you don't mess with women at work or hang out with work people. Once you intertwine your private life with the workplace you're never seen in the same light. The respect bar lowers to a bad level.
 
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