davidsonj73
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Or is it still cool to wear?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
I'm 62, should I stop wearing my fraternity sweatshirt from college?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
CornbreadFed
Master Don Juan
I stopped wearing mine after I graduated college.
SW15
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Why would any 62 year old man wear a 40+ year old sweatshirt out in public? The only reason to wear something like it is around the house maybe when you're working on a home project or just relaxing and when you've been married for decades.
I have worn sweatshirts of my alma mater out in public but I am 40 and I have a more youthful vibe than most 40 year olds. My apparel from my alma maters is still in good condition too.
A few years ago, I had to get rid of a sweatshirt that I got in senior year of high school for my undergrad alma as there were some holes in it (one near an armpit) and it was starting to look dated and worn out.
I have worn sweatshirts of my alma mater out in public but I am 40 and I have a more youthful vibe than most 40 year olds. My apparel from my alma maters is still in good condition too.
A few years ago, I had to get rid of a sweatshirt that I got in senior year of high school for my undergrad alma as there were some holes in it (one near an armpit) and it was starting to look dated and worn out.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
I'm in my seventies and I still wear my high school junior varsity jacket.
The ladies love it.
The ladies love it.
Michael Chief
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Generally speaking, yes. Stop wearing it. It's usually better to dress better.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
BackInTheGame78
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Uhh...unless you are planning to be like Will Ferrell from Old School then probably yes.