davidsonj73
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Or is it still cool to wear?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I'm 62, should I stop wearing my fraternity sweatshirt from college?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
CornbreadFed
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I stopped wearing mine after I graduated college.
SW15
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Why would any 62 year old man wear a 40+ year old sweatshirt out in public? The only reason to wear something like it is around the house maybe when you're working on a home project or just relaxing and when you've been married for decades.
I have worn sweatshirts of my alma mater out in public but I am 40 and I have a more youthful vibe than most 40 year olds. My apparel from my alma maters is still in good condition too.
A few years ago, I had to get rid of a sweatshirt that I got in senior year of high school for my undergrad alma as there were some holes in it (one near an armpit) and it was starting to look dated and worn out.
I have worn sweatshirts of my alma mater out in public but I am 40 and I have a more youthful vibe than most 40 year olds. My apparel from my alma maters is still in good condition too.
A few years ago, I had to get rid of a sweatshirt that I got in senior year of high school for my undergrad alma as there were some holes in it (one near an armpit) and it was starting to look dated and worn out.
taiyuu_otoko
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I'm in my seventies and I still wear my high school junior varsity jacket.
The ladies love it.
The ladies love it.
Michael Chief
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Generally speaking, yes. Stop wearing it. It's usually better to dress better.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
BackInTheGame78
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Uhh...unless you are planning to be like Will Ferrell from Old School then probably yes.