davidsonj73
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Or is it still cool to wear?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
I'm 62, should I stop wearing my fraternity sweatshirt from college?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
CornbreadFed
Master Don Juan
I stopped wearing mine after I graduated college.
SW15
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Why would any 62 year old man wear a 40+ year old sweatshirt out in public? The only reason to wear something like it is around the house maybe when you're working on a home project or just relaxing and when you've been married for decades.
I have worn sweatshirts of my alma mater out in public but I am 40 and I have a more youthful vibe than most 40 year olds. My apparel from my alma maters is still in good condition too.
A few years ago, I had to get rid of a sweatshirt that I got in senior year of high school for my undergrad alma as there were some holes in it (one near an armpit) and it was starting to look dated and worn out.
I have worn sweatshirts of my alma mater out in public but I am 40 and I have a more youthful vibe than most 40 year olds. My apparel from my alma maters is still in good condition too.
A few years ago, I had to get rid of a sweatshirt that I got in senior year of high school for my undergrad alma as there were some holes in it (one near an armpit) and it was starting to look dated and worn out.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
I'm in my seventies and I still wear my high school junior varsity jacket.
The ladies love it.
The ladies love it.
Michael Chief
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Generally speaking, yes. Stop wearing it. It's usually better to dress better.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
BackInTheGame78
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Uhh...unless you are planning to be like Will Ferrell from Old School then probably yes.