"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Im 27 how many women should i have been with by this age?

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Sexually. Just out of curiosity whats the average number of partners by 27.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Thats the problem. I have been with a lot of women and now i feel like a seasoned pornstar. Maybe i should slow it down. PS ive had sex with 20 women in the last two years. :nervous:
 

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I think I've read the stats are if you've had over 15 or 16, you are in the top 1/3 of all men. Maybe it will change since women are getting so easy now[and men not getting married at 21]. BUT, why do you care what the number is? I mean if it's enough for you,thats all that counts. A strong Christian man may be as proud of his celibacy as you are of your 100. In fact, he may know more about women than you do[since most guys stop trying to learn about women once they start sleeping with her].

I'm not breaking records because I'm not interested in numbers, I'm interested in quality[in fact, I'd be perfectly willing to "give up" several I did have]
 

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Who cares?

I know 35 year-olds who have been with maybe 3, and guys my age who have been with 30+. If you are a good-looking guy and you have game I would say 15 +/- 5 is "average".
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Stormbringer said:
Quality > quantity

Totally agree -- are you actually proud of those 4's and 5's you slept with when you were so drunk you couldn't see? I'm not, in fact I would probably deny ever sleeping with any of them if I saw them again.
 

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By 27, I believe my number was nearing 100. That's when I lost count. You have to also keep in mind that I started having sex in 1972 when I was 18, and things were quite different then. 100 sounds like a lot, but it's only about ten girls a year.
 

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If you're happy with that aspect of your life then it's the right number, whether it be 1 or 1000. Don't let other people tell you what you should be doing in something this personal.
 

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Stormbringer said:
Quality > quantity

Totally agree. I'd rather bang 1 Hb10 20 times than 20 5's one time. Now if I could only get 20 Hb10's..:cry:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Opinions please

Sexually. Just out of curiosity whats the socially acceptable number of partners for a 27 year old...

...female?
... male?
 

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Exactly 3.287964

Because we should all conform to societies’ norms.

You should do exactly what others say.

You should live your life by what others think.

You should try to “fit in” and be like everyone else.
 

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Sexually. Just out of curiosity whats the average number of partners by 27.
why bother ? that's the same question as "should I date a '6' or a '8'?"...or "is a 6 inches penis too small" ?...who cares ?

I youre fine with 10 partner at 27 yo, you don"t have to be ashamed if your 25yo friend bangged 10 girls the last years.

The number of sexual partners doesnt make you a better MAN. It only makes you more confident and better in bed (I guess).
You could have fvcked 150 girl and be as dumb as Lloyd Christmas. :whistle:

That"s quite difficult to remember all the name of some girls I knew...

cheers
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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about 12
 

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I am at 9 (or 10) at age 25 and I can't be really proud of the quality. But f*ck it, Ima do some quality girls in brighter future that is waiting for me ;)
 

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It's not about how many women you've ƒucked up to now. It's about how many women want to ƒuck you now. Quality comes from quantity.
 

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100+ is crazy. I don't even think I'd want to sleep with that many women. It seems to me it would be statistically impossible not to contract an STD with those numbers, even with a condom.

I've been with around 22-24 girls, and honestly if I were to get married I wouldn't feel like I've "missed out" on pvssy. The only thing I'd wish is that I spent more time banging hotter girls, lol, like most of us probably do. :D But when you're young you tend to be an opportunist.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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