"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Im 27 how many women should i have been with by this age?

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Sexually. Just out of curiosity whats the average number of partners by 27.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Thats the problem. I have been with a lot of women and now i feel like a seasoned pornstar. Maybe i should slow it down. PS ive had sex with 20 women in the last two years. :nervous:
 

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I think I've read the stats are if you've had over 15 or 16, you are in the top 1/3 of all men. Maybe it will change since women are getting so easy now[and men not getting married at 21]. BUT, why do you care what the number is? I mean if it's enough for you,thats all that counts. A strong Christian man may be as proud of his celibacy as you are of your 100. In fact, he may know more about women than you do[since most guys stop trying to learn about women once they start sleeping with her].

I'm not breaking records because I'm not interested in numbers, I'm interested in quality[in fact, I'd be perfectly willing to "give up" several I did have]
 

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Who cares?

I know 35 year-olds who have been with maybe 3, and guys my age who have been with 30+. If you are a good-looking guy and you have game I would say 15 +/- 5 is "average".
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Stormbringer said:
Quality > quantity

Totally agree -- are you actually proud of those 4's and 5's you slept with when you were so drunk you couldn't see? I'm not, in fact I would probably deny ever sleeping with any of them if I saw them again.
 

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By 27, I believe my number was nearing 100. That's when I lost count. You have to also keep in mind that I started having sex in 1972 when I was 18, and things were quite different then. 100 sounds like a lot, but it's only about ten girls a year.
 

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If you're happy with that aspect of your life then it's the right number, whether it be 1 or 1000. Don't let other people tell you what you should be doing in something this personal.
 

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Stormbringer said:
Quality > quantity

Totally agree. I'd rather bang 1 Hb10 20 times than 20 5's one time. Now if I could only get 20 Hb10's..:cry:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Opinions please

Sexually. Just out of curiosity whats the socially acceptable number of partners for a 27 year old...

...female?
... male?
 

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Exactly 3.287964

Because we should all conform to societies’ norms.

You should do exactly what others say.

You should live your life by what others think.

You should try to “fit in” and be like everyone else.
 

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Sexually. Just out of curiosity whats the average number of partners by 27.
why bother ? that's the same question as "should I date a '6' or a '8'?"...or "is a 6 inches penis too small" ?...who cares ?

I youre fine with 10 partner at 27 yo, you don"t have to be ashamed if your 25yo friend bangged 10 girls the last years.

The number of sexual partners doesnt make you a better MAN. It only makes you more confident and better in bed (I guess).
You could have fvcked 150 girl and be as dumb as Lloyd Christmas. :whistle:

That"s quite difficult to remember all the name of some girls I knew...

cheers
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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about 12
 

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I am at 9 (or 10) at age 25 and I can't be really proud of the quality. But f*ck it, Ima do some quality girls in brighter future that is waiting for me ;)
 

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It's not about how many women you've ƒucked up to now. It's about how many women want to ƒuck you now. Quality comes from quantity.
 

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100+ is crazy. I don't even think I'd want to sleep with that many women. It seems to me it would be statistically impossible not to contract an STD with those numbers, even with a condom.

I've been with around 22-24 girls, and honestly if I were to get married I wouldn't feel like I've "missed out" on pvssy. The only thing I'd wish is that I spent more time banging hotter girls, lol, like most of us probably do. :D But when you're young you tend to be an opportunist.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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