No, unapologetic is one of the qualities they cherish. So leave it at that, dont talk to her, unless she emails you. If you meet her in real life then you talk to her and take her for a drink, dont ask, take her, like Im hungry would you like to join me?
If this is a girl you met online and you are aspiring on taking her out? Forget it and move on. Meeting people online is for boys and if you are looking for women online then you are a boy, and women are not looking for boys. Exception is Match.com, and AdultFriendFinder.com if you want a nimpho.
When she denied you a drink, you should have done nothing. Nothing in itself sends a powerful message. Getting upset about it says youre a frustrated boy, got it? Read those books.