"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Just got off MSN with a girl and asked her do you still want to have a drink then! she said I'll let you know!

I just said if not have a nice life then!:rolleyes:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sounds like youre on a path of being the price and treating women too sh1tty, which is alright, but not when youre too obvious. Hard to explain what I mean thought. Read Gut Impact by J. D. Fuentes...


And also Julius Fast's Body Language, chapter 7..



Those are the bread and butter of any theory out there, be it DD, Mystery, you name it.
 
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banGbro said:
Sounds like youre on a path of being the price and treating women too sh1tty, which is alright, but not when youre too obvious. Hard to explain what I mean thought. Read Gut Impact by J. D. Fuentes...


And also Julius Fast's Body Language, chapter 7..



Those are the bread and butter of any theory out there, be it DD, Mystery, you name it.
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Should I send her a text and say i'm sorrythen ?
 
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No, unapologetic is one of the qualities they cherish. So leave it at that, dont talk to her, unless she emails you. If you meet her in real life then you talk to her and take her for a drink, dont ask, take her, like Im hungry would you like to join me?


If this is a girl you met online and you are aspiring on taking her out? Forget it and move on. Meeting people online is for boys and if you are looking for women online then you are a boy, and women are not looking for boys. Exception is Match.com, and AdultFriendFinder.com if you want a nimpho.


When she denied you a drink, you should have done nothing. Nothing in itself sends a powerful message. Getting upset about it says youre a frustrated boy, got it? Read those books.
 
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banGbro said:
No, unapologetic is one of the qualities they cherish. So leave it at that, dont talk to her, unless she emails you. If you meet her in real life then you talk to her and take her for a drink, dont ask, take her, like Im hungry would you like to join me?


If this is a girl you met online and you are aspiring on taking her out? Forget it and move on. Meeting people online is for boys and if you are looking for women online then you are a boy, and women are not looking for boys. Exception is Match.com, and AdultFriendFinder.com if you want a nimpho.


When she denied you a drink, you should have done nothing. Nothing in itself sends a powerful message. Getting upset about it says youre a frustrated boy, got it? Read those books.
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I meet her in a coffee shop :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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To add to my previous post, always ask yourself, would James Bond respond as I did/am going to?


Think about it, James Bond is too cool to give a sh1t.
 
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Ive been looking for somewhere to download Julius Fast but I can't find anything.
 
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Next time, why don't you tell her to come have a drink with you instead of asking her. Read the bible!

"I'm headed to so and so to have a drink. You should meet me there."

If she doesn't come, her lost. You're the prize and she should try to win you over. Otherwise, right now, seems like low interest and you should look elsewhere.
 
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Next time, why don't you tell her to come have a drink with you instead of asking her. Read the bible!

"I'm headed to so and so to have a drink. You should meet me there."

If she doesn't come, her lost. You're the prize and she should try to win you over. Otherwise, right now, seems like low interest and you should look elsewhere.
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She works/ lives at a posh hotel that only tells her a few hours before if she is working or not sometimes!

So this makes it all a bit harder.But if she likes me she will make time?
 
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johncrawford said:
Just got off MSN with a girl and asked her do you still want to have a drink then! she said I'll let you know!

I just said if not have a nice life then!:rolleyes:
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don't confuse this for flaming. It's just constructive critcisam on your last sentance.

what did you accomplish with it....it just sounds like a despret attempt to make your self feel better. Or like your a hurt little poppy. You can't show that it bothers you.

If it was me i'd be like;

aha, alright then :rolleyes: (and continue the conversation if it was any good, after all you can't have too many friends, or pivots)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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spider_007 said:
don't confuse this for flaming. It's just constructive critcisam on your last sentance.

what did you accomplish with it....it just sounds like a despret attempt to make your self feel better. Or like your a hurt little poppy. You can't show that it bothers you.

If it was me i'd be like;

aha, alright then :rolleyes: (and continue the conversation if it was any good, after all you can't have too many friends, or pivots)
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Moved on to another girl now:cool:
 
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