Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Just got off MSN with a girl and asked her do you still want to have a drink then! she said I'll let you know!

I just said if not have a nice life then!:rolleyes:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sounds like youre on a path of being the price and treating women too sh1tty, which is alright, but not when youre too obvious. Hard to explain what I mean thought. Read Gut Impact by J. D. Fuentes...


And also Julius Fast's Body Language, chapter 7..



Those are the bread and butter of any theory out there, be it DD, Mystery, you name it.
 
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banGbro said:
Sounds like youre on a path of being the price and treating women too sh1tty, which is alright, but not when youre too obvious. Hard to explain what I mean thought. Read Gut Impact by J. D. Fuentes...


And also Julius Fast's Body Language, chapter 7..



Those are the bread and butter of any theory out there, be it DD, Mystery, you name it.
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Should I send her a text and say i'm sorrythen ?
 
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No, unapologetic is one of the qualities they cherish. So leave it at that, dont talk to her, unless she emails you. If you meet her in real life then you talk to her and take her for a drink, dont ask, take her, like Im hungry would you like to join me?


If this is a girl you met online and you are aspiring on taking her out? Forget it and move on. Meeting people online is for boys and if you are looking for women online then you are a boy, and women are not looking for boys. Exception is Match.com, and AdultFriendFinder.com if you want a nimpho.


When she denied you a drink, you should have done nothing. Nothing in itself sends a powerful message. Getting upset about it says youre a frustrated boy, got it? Read those books.
 
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banGbro said:
No, unapologetic is one of the qualities they cherish. So leave it at that, dont talk to her, unless she emails you. If you meet her in real life then you talk to her and take her for a drink, dont ask, take her, like Im hungry would you like to join me?


If this is a girl you met online and you are aspiring on taking her out? Forget it and move on. Meeting people online is for boys and if you are looking for women online then you are a boy, and women are not looking for boys. Exception is Match.com, and AdultFriendFinder.com if you want a nimpho.


When she denied you a drink, you should have done nothing. Nothing in itself sends a powerful message. Getting upset about it says youre a frustrated boy, got it? Read those books.
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I meet her in a coffee shop :)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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To add to my previous post, always ask yourself, would James Bond respond as I did/am going to?


Think about it, James Bond is too cool to give a sh1t.
 
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Ive been looking for somewhere to download Julius Fast but I can't find anything.
 
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Next time, why don't you tell her to come have a drink with you instead of asking her. Read the bible!

"I'm headed to so and so to have a drink. You should meet me there."

If she doesn't come, her lost. You're the prize and she should try to win you over. Otherwise, right now, seems like low interest and you should look elsewhere.
 
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Next time, why don't you tell her to come have a drink with you instead of asking her. Read the bible!

"I'm headed to so and so to have a drink. You should meet me there."

If she doesn't come, her lost. You're the prize and she should try to win you over. Otherwise, right now, seems like low interest and you should look elsewhere.
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She works/ lives at a posh hotel that only tells her a few hours before if she is working or not sometimes!

So this makes it all a bit harder.But if she likes me she will make time?
 
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johncrawford said:
Just got off MSN with a girl and asked her do you still want to have a drink then! she said I'll let you know!

I just said if not have a nice life then!:rolleyes:
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don't confuse this for flaming. It's just constructive critcisam on your last sentance.

what did you accomplish with it....it just sounds like a despret attempt to make your self feel better. Or like your a hurt little poppy. You can't show that it bothers you.

If it was me i'd be like;

aha, alright then :rolleyes: (and continue the conversation if it was any good, after all you can't have too many friends, or pivots)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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spider_007 said:
don't confuse this for flaming. It's just constructive critcisam on your last sentance.

what did you accomplish with it....it just sounds like a despret attempt to make your self feel better. Or like your a hurt little poppy. You can't show that it bothers you.

If it was me i'd be like;

aha, alright then :rolleyes: (and continue the conversation if it was any good, after all you can't have too many friends, or pivots)
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Moved on to another girl now:cool:
 
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